selama nie x pernah terpk akan ade blog sendiri..even me myself was not a blog reader..never once in my life..1st time bace blog mase fatinn mule2 lancarkan blog die..tu pon sbb die bgtau die tulis cite pasal ktorang..tp tu pun jarang bace and fatinn's blog was the only one i read..yeah..as i said..i was not a blog reader and i was not keen to do so..
and what makes me wanna blog this year..and suddenly out of the blue?? u can read my 1st post on the March 18, 2008 to get the answer..haha..at 1st..besides sharing my thoughts..i wanna make this blog as informative as possible..like kak farah's one..(ouh yea..i read kak farah's blog too besides fatinn's..hehe)..i find hers is interesting and full of information..it is until now :-)
then i slowly began to read other's blogs too..and there u can see on the left side..the list of blogs that i read..not counting the ones yg xde dalam list tp still bace through 'bloghopping' (is that what u call it?)..and to be honest..there are a few of my favourites..but of course laa rahsia kan..hehe..
now i find reading and updating blog is interesting..through reading other ppl's blog..u are able to know the other side of the person..mcm mane org tu sbenarnye..walaupun kte sbenarnye x boleh dan x patot menilai seseorg hanya melalui blog..tp sedikit sbyk ia mempengaruhi judgment and impression kte terhadap seseorg itu..ade yg kte nampak baek dan ske senyum..tp dalam blog dia seorg yg agak opposite (u know what i mean rite)..and the reason i always found is:
"i don't write to please other ppl..i write for myself and how i feel..if u don't like it..don't read it and stay out of my life"
sounds familiar?..fair enough..it's your blog anyway kan ("it's my blog"-the other reason i always found and i used it for myself too ;-P)..sebabnye x nak jadi hipokrit dan x tau kat mane nak meluahkan..so that person blog about it..but just remember that your blog is been read by other ppl..takot nanti mesej x sampai dan menimbulkan salah faham..unless your blog is private laa kan..kdg2 tu niat di hati cume nak tulis ape yg benar..and the truth hurts..i'm not saying org yg tulis baek2 tu hipokrit..tp kalau da menulis sampai mengutuk dan menghentam org laen..hey..pe cite?? kalau x suke..just keep it to yourself..make your blog private and can be read by the ppl u close with..kalau nak bg org yg kene kutuk tu bace dan tau sendiri..tulis name terang2..x perlu laa org laen terasa kan..kalau x pon..tego secara general..but as i said..it's your blog..suka hati laa kan..awak yg tanggung..
me myself pernah mengalami suatu kejadian yg x diingini kerana blogging..tp x perlu diungkit..yg lepas..biarkan lepas..buang yg keruh..ambil yg jernih..everything is fine and i'm happy now..yg penting..saye dapat pengajaran sgt berguna dari peristiwa itu..i learn that you cannot express everything and too detail about something..think about other ppl who read it..tp jgn sampai jadi hipokrit..cume setengah2 bende..it's just BETTER or BEST to keep it to yourself..or with the ppl that you close with..tapis2 laa sket kan..yea..saye mengaku dulu my filtered level kurang..sume bende pon nak tulis..haha..
ok2..tetibe jadi penasihat blog pulak laa kan..niat di hati sempena post yg ke-100 nie nak buat something different..tukar layout macam 'my daughter' ke..tukar gaye penulisan ke..tukar isi2 kandungan ke..cari bende2 yg berilmiah dan yg lebey menarik ke..ape2 laa..tp x jadi ape pon..still the same..xde idea laa plak..belom datang lg idea2 menarik..tunggu laa nanti tetibe kalau ade..akan dilakukan..insya-Allah..
ade jugak cube2 cari layout yg baru..tp blom jumpe yg berkenan di hati..rase macam nak tukar laa default font nie..sbb tu nak tukar layout baru..
teringat mase mule2 tulis dulu suke letak quote sbg finishing entry tp lame2 sampai skarang da xde..semangat btol mule2 dulu kan..hmm..nak letak quote ape ekk kali nie..hmmm..xde idea!! ahaks!! (kalau korg perasan..bile tulis saye x penah gune 'koma' tp suke gune '2 titik')
Selamat Menulis Entri yg ke-100!! Yeayy!!
as i said in previous post..kenape excited dgn no 100?? sbb kalau budak2 skola mesti ske kejar markah 100 dalam peperiksaan!! haha!! so academic..nampak sgt dulu saye ske kejar markah 100 kan..yup2..x menafikan..hehe..
looking forward to keep maintaining and updating this blog..
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in my opinion, i think blog is a place where we can write what we want, from the bottom of our heart....
ReplyDeletethe place where u can express ur feeling about anything that u can't say or done
bcoz in real life, it's hard 4 u to say or done it directly due to take care of others' feeling etc...
thank u for ur sincere opinion..i respect and appreciate that..but i do have my own opinion as well :-)
ReplyDeletei do agree with ur opinion but to a certain extent..bcoz by expressing our true feelings thru writing we may never realized that we may hurt other ppl's feelings too..maybe more..so sometimes it's better if we go to that person and tell them personally..IF it involves other ppl..if not then i guess it's ok..